Why Wait ?

Abstinence until marriage is a great choice!
Why should I choose abstinence?
If this is a question you're asking, here are a
few things to think about.

Abstinence is the ONLY 100%
way to prevent pregnancy.
And considering that 1 out of every 10
teenage girls becomes pregnant each year
could definitely add a plus for it. Pregnancy
cannot be ignored, and whatever is done
about it will have a permanent effect on the
mother's life. The woman is usually left with
the consequences and responsibilities.
Think about your goals, plans, and dreams.
How would caring for a child for the next 18 years fit into those plans?

Abstinence also prevents sexually transmitted diseases. 1 out of every 5 people are infected with a viral STD. Abstaining from sex will shield you from STD's.

Self Respect and foundation for a loving and secure marriage.
There are other issues that abstinence prevents besides the physical ones. Premarital sex provides NO ASSURANCE of security, love, or commitment from the other person. Self respect means you have the strength to say NO to sex when you are not ready for it. A man who loves you will respect you for that as well, and will know to not take you for a ride. Many times it might be one of security, love, or commitment that girls are looking for. A secure and happy marriage will provide the three of these. It will also assure you that this is the right person for more than just one night. Premarital sex can also bring future guilt and regret. Think about how hard it would be to tell your husband that you had not saved your virginity until marriage when he had. Abstinence is not saying to give up sex forever, but to wait until marriage. Think about how much more enjoyable things are when you wait for them.

Four Stages of Building Healthy Relationships

Stage One-Exploring Similarities
In this initial stage of the relationship, the man and woman focus upon their similarities and generally do not see imperfections in each other or potential areas of incompatibility.

Stage Two-Exploring Differences
In this stage, differences in interests, perceptions, and goals may arise. Also, it is a time when weaknesses in the other person become apparent. If positive steps are not taken to address and negotiate these issues, there is a good chance that the relationship will not advance to the next stage.

Stage Three-Dealing with Similarities and Differences
At this stage, the couple must engage in a serious assessment of their relationship to determine whether it should lead to marriage. A solid foundation for marriage requires that difficult issues be resolved before the marriage, not afterwards. Hope pregnancy center at WAAW foundation encourages couples to seek pre-marital counseling at this stage, from their church or spiritual leadership. We also provide referals for pre-marital counseling.

Stage Four-Life-long Commitment
Marriage requires a lifelong commitment. Without a high degree of commitment, the relationship cannot last. It is important to be sure in your heart about your partners commitment as you boldly and joyfully take this step to marriage.

Hope pregnancy center at WAAW foundation wants you to know that a beautiful and great marriage is heaven on earth, but a bad marriage on a faulty foundation is hell on earth. Do not be compelled to make the wrong choice!